Dear
Rebecca,
I have just read your article in the 'Evening Post'
and if I can help you in any way, I will be happy to do so. If
I can be of any assistance with your studies I will be pleased to do so and
of course provide you with a Sunday Roast.
My name is Colin Bevan, aged 67; I am retired and live on a council estate
in Penlan, although I now own my house. My partner is Carole, aged 62 who
is also retired and the third member of the household is my nephew Jack, who
is 11 years old.
The Sunday roast dinner has always been a feature of our family life and it
is something we all look forward to. This traditional Sunday meal enables
us to share and discuss the activities of the past week and if you so desire,
you are welcome to share a Sunday roast dinner with us. It is always an enjoyable
experience when friends share a meal with us.
Best
Wishes for your studies. Colin
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Jack’s
Sunday school just began when I arrive at his home in Penlan, Swansea. Carole
sits in the living room and reads the newspaper. “I am not allowed to
help anyway!” she says and whips the next side of her newspaper. Carole
is 62 years old and born in America, Wisconsin. Some decades ago she has visited
her family on the mother’s side in England and didn’t go back
to the States. After her children were grown up, she moved again to Wisconsin,
however, she already came back after one month.
Colin and Carole appear to me like an ‘old’ married couple, nevertheless
they got to know each other 18 months ago on an internet-website and then
“everything went quite fast” and Carole moved to Colin.
He has already marinated the lamb joint in honey and fresh rosemary from the
garden, the evening before. Packed in a roast foil, Colin puts the lamb now
in the oven.Whilst he is preparing the vegetables he tells me about Jack –
no, not Jack, the parrot – I will tell later about him. Jack is Colin’s
nephew, he is eleven years old, two years ago his mother died and since this
time Colin looks after him. “He is a good boy,” he says and is
looking trough the kitchen window in the garden: “Do you see the rose
bushes over there? Under one lays his mother. I will put a bench up when it
gets warmer.”
Colin falls silent for a moment and goes to the dining room. A cuckoo clock
is hanging at the wall. He winds the clock up and says: “The clock reminds
me of my mother”. His mother died one year ago, she wanted that Colin
brings half of her ash to Germany, on a British soldier’s cemetery,
to her first husband. As a memory Colin has brought a cuckoo clock from Germany.
Many memories and small presents hang and stand in the dining room, especially
from Germany, because Colin maintains for many years a friendship to a German.
“Achim visited Swansea in 1967 on an exchange visit under the Swansea-Mannheim
friendship link, stayed with my parents, developed a very close bond with
them and we have been very close friends ever since. He has made over 80 visits
to Swansea since those early days and has many friends here.” Colin
is very nervous, usually nobody is allowed in the kitchen when he cooks. “Jack
loves his vegetables, because of him there is always a little bit more,”
and cleans undauntedly the vegetables.
I haven’t noticed that Carole picked up Jack from Sunday school, because
suddenly the boy stands in the kitchen. With big shy eyes, like a roe deer,
he looks at me. Shyly he says ‘Hi’ to me and disappears in the
living room.
I follow Colin in the garden; he brings the rubbish on the compost and shows
me the rose bushes and his garden herbs. “We just have painted the house,
now I have to tidy the garden in spring,” he mumbles and we go back
in. In the meantime Jack has made himself comfortable in the living room and
is playing with Carole ‘Operation’, a play what I will get to
know later.
Colin chunters: “Oh shit the oven has gone off. Ordinarily, I take the
smaller one, but the roast was bigger than usual.” Colin becomes even
more nervous, the vegetables are ready and now the roast needs another at
least half an hour. “Normally we have lunch at one o’clock, it
will be tardy now!” he says and pushes the roasted potatoes and parsnips
in the smaller oven to keep them warm. Jack comes to the kitchen and asks
how long Colin still needs and whether he may play in the meantime with the
PlayStation. “Yes, but only half an hour,” says Colin and the
boy already sits before the television in the dining room. However, he is
not playing for a long time, probably driven of hunger; he rather helps Colin
to lay the table. Suddenly he roars “Oh Colin, I am sorry, it just spilt
over!” – “Oh Jack what have you done?” shouted Colin
and looks into the dining room. From the living room a voice is shouting:
“Naughty boy, naughty boy!” – The parrot Jack who lives
in the sitting room also felt immediately appealed. Carole comes and everybody
is looking at the mess: Jack has tipped the mint sauce over the table. Over
and over again he looks at Colin and says: “I am sorry, Colin, I am
sorry.” “Simply put the fruit plate above the mess,” I
suggest with a smile and Jack starts slowly to smile again. Colin goes back
into the kitchen and tries to save the burnt parsnips. Carole and Jack bring
the last plates with vegetables on the table and sit down, while Colin carves
the meat.
From the kitchen we hear it clanging. “He is always so nervous when
we have guests,” she announces, the both smile at each other and begin
to serve the food. As last, Colin brings the sauce and sits down exhausted.
During only a few minutes we scoff everything: The Roast lamb, Yorkshire pudding,
roast potatoes, mashed potatoes, carrots, pees, green beans, broccoli, cabbage,
asparagus and Brussels sprouts. The Lamb is tender and tastes thus nice with
mint sauce. We say “Well done, Colin!” over and over again and
finish everything.
Colin leans back contentedly in his chair, crosses the arms before his belly
and is obviously proud with the outcome of his cooking. We talk about the
tradition of the Sunday lunch and Jack explains how important it is for him
to sit together on Sunday to have lunch. Just one year ago Colin’s mother
sat also at the table, she also lived in the house and Colin took care of
her. Carole tells that she had always a traditional Sunday lunch in America
and that her grandma, who lived next door, came around every Sunday for lunch.
In the oven waits already the dessert: a cherry strudel. I could see that
Jack is looking forward to the strudel of course with the addition of vanilla
icecream which rounds off this Sunday lunch to a perfect whole.
Actually, Jack must always take over the wash-off of the dishes, however,
after he asks whether I would like to play with him ‘Operation’,
Carole says that she takes over the washing-off. Everybody brings something
in the kitchen which looks like a battlefield. Carole is letting hot water
in when she sees that I want to steal myself outside to smoke a cigarette.
“I come with you!” she says and forgets about the dirty dishes.
Colin mumbles: “Then I have to do it.” Colin is almost finished
when we come back into the kitchen. She helps him to dry up and I go with
Jack into the living room to play board games. It does not last long, Carole
and Colin also come, sit down on the couch and watch TV.
A lovely Sunday ends, meanwhile, it is after four o’clock and I sit
on the carpet in the living room, play ‘Operation’ with Jack and
the parrot Jack is sitting on my shoulder.